playbiller Posted July 25, 2007 Report Share Posted July 25, 2007 I am very depressed tonight, and it is not about the boards. I had a ticket to a show and was going to bring a friend, but I got a call today, after 2 weeks she will not be coming. I don't claim to know the dynamics of her very strange loveless marriage, but her husband will not allow her to go out on Saturday - apparently this is a new rule. I did not want to push because she sounded funny, but I said she would be missing a good concert and she burst out into tears. I offered to go over to her house while her husband is at work and she insisted she needed to take a nap because it wasa 3 day argument. This is someone who never seems to need sleep and was usually available, except the rule was not to call her after 9 PM at night when he was sleeping. So, I asked if I could come over tomorrow - the answer is no. Then she hung up and did not answer when I called back. I know that some men become more demanding as they approach retirement age and it could be some mental thing, but this sort of scares me because it is all new and I have known this woman (and peripherally her husband) for 30 years, mostly at work and over the phone because we were both so busy before. I don't know if I should do anything or let it alone because it is none of my business. I am stymied. She was calling me almost everyday about going together, etc. I really should have more friends in state, it is not my fault that they keep moving to other states when they retire though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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